Everyone Different, Everyone Unique

This article was triggered by my anxiety about the increase number of judging other. Now, people too easy to judge other cause of a few activities. Even, some people judge without know what other does. That is a harmfull phenomena of our live today.

            I think there are some points that have to understand for us to make our live better, more relax, happier.

 First, don’t take too short time to make a conclusion. This is important for us because we have to consider something in different point of view. Minimum, we have to take two points of view that point from our opinion and point if we are in the position as the other. In this case we can add the other point to view what really occured and what really expectation from other (remember: so many point of view so close we are with what trully happened). And after that, we have to consider what an object there and take the conclusion about something happened.

            Second, we do not too easy to judge the other. Although  they in the same way or the opposite way of our thinking. This time, too many people judge the other with no complete data. There are so many risk  we got if we judge too easy. Moreover if we live in a sensitif circumstance area, a little thing can be a big thing the future as known as Butterfly Effect. Judging (although just a little thing) can be a big diseaster if we are not carefull what, where and for who judge adressed.

            Third, Give  respect for other’s believe.  Everyone different, and that’s why make theirself unique. And some case their believes are different. Believe rise from an ideology, ideology come from own thinking. Everyone live with their thinking so they live with their believe. And from a believe, someone can struggling to realize their dream. So if we respect other’s believe, we also respect to other’s struggling. There’s no problem with someone’s struggling. The problem is when your friend never struggle because you take to much speak about their believe that has an opposite with yours.

Because of the believe have many kinds we have to respect other believe as good as we can. Moreover we live in Indonesia which has motto “Bhineka Tunggal Ika” or “Unity in Diversity”.  That is not just a motto! There is a deep message for us, for Indonesia. That is Diversity make us strong! To transform a diversity to be a adding value, we have to give a respect to other believe.

            That’s my opinion to make our live happier, better and relax.  Don’t take a case in panic accepment. Just give your cheers to other and re-thinking a question from Joker “Why So Serious?”